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A gilded cage is still a cage

'Clinical' is a word that is part of the framework and the furniture of my job as a Speech and Language Therapist (SLT). It trips off the tongue of colleagues without question and populates documents, policies and procedures. Yet, I wonder, in all its commonplace and everyday presence, do people ever really stand back to think about what that word actually implies? Here are two definitions from the Cambridge English Online Dictionary clinical  adjective   used to refer to medical work or teaching that relates to the examination and treatment of ill people expressing no emotion or feelings; showing no character and warmt h In reading these definitions I feel like I want to scream loudly and break free from those words, that box that contains my working life. For all the talk of  care, closeness and individual support  by my professional body, the term  clinical  remains a gilded cage. A cage because these are the words and meanings that frame my day-to-...
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To be and to become: Thoughts around the verbs of being well

One of the most beautiful and individually different verbs in any language is the verb 'to be'. It is a linguistic metaphor that celebrates and radically normalises difference, valiantly reclaiming our right to push against standards and norms in only a few letters and sounds.

The unique form of the verb 'to be' is apparent in its frequent, variable and flexible use. It holds adjectives and moves us through time and space; it provides a window into our emotions, our past, present and future selves. 'To be' is at the heart of our experiences, and our experiences are at the heart of who we are. Accepting and validating all the myriad different ways of being in and with the world further emphasises the importance of environments on the outcome of being well. 

As common as 'to be' is as an action, it is not a verb where we can enforce conformity. It's inherent divergence has come about over time and across history. In the same way, our everyday actions-repeated, lived, and experienced-are the fertile ground in which linguistic diversity has always flourished. Just as we accept without thinking the many forms of 'to be', we too can thrive, where and when there is acceptance and understanding for the strength that comes from diversity and the interweaving of many and multiple threads of being in creating a whole.

It is perhaps no accident that in English the verb to be also nestles within the verb 'to become'. In being our authentic selves, in spaces where we feel safe to do so, we can indeed become, and disrupt the enactment and performance of being that society so often dictates.

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